{"id":60,"date":"2015-12-22T11:10:30","date_gmt":"2015-12-22T08:10:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quran-for-all.com\/blog\/2015\/12\/22\/calmness-priceless-things-american-students-journey-islam\/"},"modified":"2015-12-22T11:10:30","modified_gmt":"2015-12-22T08:10:30","slug":"calmness-priceless-things-american-students-journey-islam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quran-for-all.com\/blog\/calmness-priceless-things-american-students-journey-islam\/","title":{"rendered":"Calmness and Other Priceless Things: An American Student\u2019s Journey to Islam"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_16856\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.new-muslims.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Calmness-and-Other-Priceless-Things.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-16856\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.new-muslims.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Calmness-and-Other-Priceless-Things-150x150.jpg?resize=150%2C150\" alt=\"peace-nature\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Conversion to Islam helped her to be a calmer person.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cIslam is about <a title=\"That\u2019s Why We Pray!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/thats-why-we-pray\/\" target=\"_blank\">trying to pray<\/a> and trying to <a title=\"Why I Decided to Submit\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/converts\/conversion-stories\/why-i-decided-to-submit\/\" target=\"_blank\">be a better person<\/a>\u201d, student says.<\/p>\n<p>When Marilyn Martinez came back to San Antonio, she did not speak English. She was born in the U.S. but raised in Mexico as a Catholic. When her parents divorced, she moved to Texas to be with her mother.<\/p>\n<p>She attended this college and earned an associate degree in dental assisting.<\/p>\n<p>She had been in the U.S. for six months when the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, happened.<\/p>\n<p>As Martinez watched the events unfold on television, she wondered why the media portrayed Arabs as terrorists and made Islam seem like a bad religion, she said.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>First Steps into Islam<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Several months later, in February 2002, she met her future husband, a Muslim from Saudi Arabia, through a classmate at a barbecue and began to <a title=\"Practical Ways to Acquiring Knowledge about Islam\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/practical-ways-to-acquiring-knowledge-about-islam\/\" target=\"_blank\">learn about Islam<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Martinez demonstrates <a title=\"Prerequisites for Prayer\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/prerequisites-for-prayer\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>wudu\u2019<\/em> (ablution; washing before prayer)<\/a>. Muslims recite \u201c<em>bismillahi Ar-Rahman Ar-Raheem<\/em>\u201d (In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful), then wash their hands, mouth, nose and face three times. Wash the right arm to the elbow first then left, put water on the head front to back, clean behind the ears with thumb. Finally the feet are washed between the toes starting with the right foot.<\/p>\n<p>A few months later, and seven months into knowing each other, she accidently walked into his room while he was praying. That was the first time she ever saw a Muslim pray.<\/p>\n<p>After a year she wanted to learn more about the religion so he brought her books about Islam written in Spanish.<\/p>\n<p>In 2005, she began wearing a hijab, a head covering, periodically.<\/p>\n<p>Martinez recited her <a title=\"How Should I Declare the Shahadah?\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/abcs-of-islam\/pillars-of-islam\/declare-shahadah\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Shahadah<\/em><\/a>, (Declaration of Faith), in 2013 in the presence of a <em>sheikh <\/em>and several women from the mosque and has been a Muslim for eight years, she said.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"With Every Shahadah a New Life Is Born\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/with-every-shahadah-a-new-life-is-born\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Shahadah<\/em><\/a> is when a Muslim recites that there is only one god, Allah, and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Better Person<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Martinez did not have to change her religion to get married. In fact, she converted after she separated from her husband. She did it for herself, not for him, she said.<\/p>\n<p>She and her husband divorced because of their cultural differences, not religion, she said.<\/p>\n<p>Now that <a title=\"Muslim and True Sense of Belonging\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/muslim-true-sense-belonging\/\" target=\"_blank\">Martinez is Muslim<\/a>, she says the religion is different from how the media portrays it.<\/p>\n<p>She said her conversion to Islam helped her to be a calmer person. It helped her to accept things that happened in her life but did not change who she is.<\/p>\n<p>Martinez says she is Mexican by heart and her religion is separate.<\/p>\n<p>Her family respects her holidays. When she <a title=\"The Five Pillars of Islam\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/abcs-of-islam\/pillars-of-islam\/five-pillars-islam\/\" target=\"_blank\">fasts during Ramadan<\/a>, her whole family waits to break the fast with her at sundown, she said.<\/p>\n<p>She accepts <a title=\"Prophethood in Islam\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/abcs-of-islam\/articles-of-faith\/prophethood-in-islam\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jesus was a prophet<\/a>, like <a title=\"Muhammad: The Seal of Prophets\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/the-prophet-muhammad-saas\/\" target=\"_blank\">Muhammad<\/a> (peace be upon them).<\/p>\n<p>Martinez always questioned <a title=\"Like It or Not, Jesus Practiced Islam\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/converts\/conversion-stories\/like-it-or-not-jesus-practiced-islam\/\" target=\"_blank\">the crucifixion of Jesus,<\/a> and worshipping saints did not resonate with her. <a title=\"Worship in Islam: True Purpose and Motives\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/uncategorized\/worship-in-islam-true-purpose-and-motives\/\" target=\"_blank\">Muslims do not worship statues<\/a>; when she was Catholic she always questioned why she had to pray to saints.<\/p>\n<p>At Christmas, she celebrates with her family but does not participate in the Catholic rituals.<\/p>\n<p>When she prays at home, she wears <em>`abaya<\/em> (a prayer dress that covers her body).<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"About Prayer: The Second Pillar of Islam\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/acts-of-worship\/prayers-salat\/about-prayer-the-second-pillar-of-islam\/\" target=\"_blank\">Praying five times a day<\/a> is calming, she said. Sometimes, she prays when she is sad. Muslim women must cover their hair, neck and arms to their wrists and their legs to their ankles or the prayer won\u2019t count, she said.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Between Religion &amp; Culture<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Martinez likes to cover up and wear hijab because she wants people to know anyone can be Muslim; it is not exclusive to Arabs. <a title=\"Islam: Beyond Diversity &amp; Cultures\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/islam-beyond-diversity-cultures\/\" target=\"_blank\">She separates Arab culture from the religion<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She is a <a title=\"How to Be Muslim and Modest? (Part 1)\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/how-to-be-muslim-and-modest-part-1\/\" target=\"_blank\">modest person <\/a>anyway. Wearing hijab does not stop her from being active.<\/p>\n<p>To keep track of prayer times, Martinez uses an app called \u201cAdhan\u201d that can be set to go off before the five prayer times to alert the user <a title=\"Prayer: The Healthy Structure of Your Life\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/featured\/prayer-the-healthy-structure-of-your-life\/\" target=\"_blank\">it\u2019s time to pray<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Martinez said her friends said even though she changed her religious belief, she is the same person. She is <a title=\"Islam\u2026It\u2019s My Decision to Find Peace\" href=\"http:\/\/www.new-muslims.info\/converts\/conversion-stories\/islam-its-my-decision-to-find-peace\/\" target=\"_blank\">at peace with herself<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>_________________________<\/p>\n<p><em>Source: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theranger.org\/\">theranger.org<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<div style=\"margin:10px 0 10px 0\"><a href=\"\/\/send\" class=\"wa_btn wa_btn_l\">Share<\/a><\/div>\n<p>[ica_orginalurl]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why did this American student choose Islam? What were the mission ingredients in her life and what did she find in Islam? What changes did Islam bring to her life? 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